I don’t like the way society treats people nowadays. You have an obese friend and you tell her that she’s beautiful just the way she is, and you feel good about yourself for telling her that. No she’s not. That’s not beautiful; that’s NOT healthy. People are not supposed to be that fat. And you’re not a good person for telling her that it’s okay. I’d say you should tell her to lose weight, unless you want her to die in a young age from heart attack.
Bottom line, I should emphasize that I’m talking about obese people, not fat people. Fat is okay. I know many fat people who look good and healthy. I’m talking about the Nutty-Professor-fat kinda thing. Go see a doctor, get on a healthy diet, and lose some weight.